From one EE to another; Didja ever hear of switch 'bounce' on make? If it occurs late enough after initial make with a large(>> steady state rating) motor START current, arcing can occur on 'make' with a larger energy arc than a 'normal' break.
I hope your second pole is more reliable/durable than the pole you WERE using.

BTW EVERYONE His efforts to minimize voltage drop from source to SS is laudable, but MAY have caused the switches early demise. The energy being provided by 'low loss' wiring etc COULD accelerate the failure caused by whatever arcing was occuring(IMHO).
ALSO When did SS start closing at 17:00 EST?????:(
P.S. When you get the 'new' switch and connect it up, wire the two poles in series. This would spread the fireworks around and if it tends to misbehave like the first one, you will have eliminated the need to re terminate when 1 pole sticks closed!!!:D
73's