Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:09 am
Wow.
After some of my long absences I do not even attempt to catch up what happen while I was gone. Thus the last posts here I had not seen until tonight when I went searching for this post.
I haven't really attempted to explain some of my absences as they were personal in nature but I feel perhaps I should have give more details.
My father in law had been living at his home in the UP of MI on his own and doing fine until about a year and 3/4 ago. It was never quite clear what happened but clearly something happened, despite being hospitalized and being checked they never did decide what was going on. Some of that just seems to be normal when people are in their 90's.
My wife and I live 400 miles away and his other daughter 500 miles away so it seem best if moved to a nursing home to "recover". It wasn't too much of a surprise that instead of that conditions went the other way. I'm not going to go into details but with the medications and effects of the "prime event" left him a far different person then I had know for the last 43 years.
We were making trips and dealing with issues as was his other daughter from her end. This provide a bit more drama and effort then I care for in my life but you have to do what you have to do.
Then this past summer he began the final ups and downs of end of life. We knew the end was near but he would be down then fight back only to go back down again. We were thankful when he found peace towards the end of Sept, about 6 weeks short of being 96.
So that is the reason I've here and then gone again and back again. It is all part of life.
Nothing need be said as reply's as I'm not telling you this looking for condolences, just giving you the facts.
Ed
After some of my long absences I do not even attempt to catch up what happen while I was gone. Thus the last posts here I had not seen until tonight when I went searching for this post.
I haven't really attempted to explain some of my absences as they were personal in nature but I feel perhaps I should have give more details.
My father in law had been living at his home in the UP of MI on his own and doing fine until about a year and 3/4 ago. It was never quite clear what happened but clearly something happened, despite being hospitalized and being checked they never did decide what was going on. Some of that just seems to be normal when people are in their 90's.
My wife and I live 400 miles away and his other daughter 500 miles away so it seem best if moved to a nursing home to "recover". It wasn't too much of a surprise that instead of that conditions went the other way. I'm not going to go into details but with the medications and effects of the "prime event" left him a far different person then I had know for the last 43 years.
We were making trips and dealing with issues as was his other daughter from her end. This provide a bit more drama and effort then I care for in my life but you have to do what you have to do.
Then this past summer he began the final ups and downs of end of life. We knew the end was near but he would be down then fight back only to go back down again. We were thankful when he found peace towards the end of Sept, about 6 weeks short of being 96.
So that is the reason I've here and then gone again and back again. It is all part of life.
Nothing need be said as reply's as I'm not telling you this looking for condolences, just giving you the facts.
Ed