Venting, Mom
Posted: Fri Sep 23, 2016 2:31 am
Off to the Home today, even though I have help in from 11am-1pm ish M-F big load off me, so nice not to have to be waiting for the bed time ring to help her get up and brunch for 2 hours. To bed on my time not her time schedule for 5 nights.
I know some have had worse, and PMed me, man I can appreciate!!! But it is all relative, Feels so good for a few days, just on me and my time schedule!! Get up and go to bed on MY time, and nothing in between!!
If you have not been there you cant appreciate a few days, and the ones you have been, I know.
For those here that have not experienced it yet, get ready, with a spouse ahead a time, meals/cooking/domestics, Medicare services that are covered on it ect. It isnt what we want, but will be a reality soon.
I have gone through it so do not be afraid to ask me for my learning on all of this.
They want to take mom of of Hospice, on it I get to put her in a high end Nursing Home for 4 nights/5 days every 60 days for my reief, off Hospice no way, but still get all the other home services, RN nurse in once a week and a Home Health Aid 2x to bathe mom ect
I put into Appeal, good none Government, over site Organization, I get an answer in 48 hours. I put in to appeal on Wednesday 1130am Hospice was here at 430pm, for mom to sign some papers, that they got it sent to The appeal people by 5pm the same day, that was mandated by the appeal place!!!
I know some have had worse, and PMed me, man I can appreciate!!! But it is all relative, Feels so good for a few days, just on me and my time schedule!! Get up and go to bed on MY time, and nothing in between!!
If you have not been there you cant appreciate a few days, and the ones you have been, I know.
For those here that have not experienced it yet, get ready, with a spouse ahead a time, meals/cooking/domestics, Medicare services that are covered on it ect. It isnt what we want, but will be a reality soon.
I have gone through it so do not be afraid to ask me for my learning on all of this.
They want to take mom of of Hospice, on it I get to put her in a high end Nursing Home for 4 nights/5 days every 60 days for my reief, off Hospice no way, but still get all the other home services, RN nurse in once a week and a Home Health Aid 2x to bathe mom ect
I put into Appeal, good none Government, over site Organization, I get an answer in 48 hours. I put in to appeal on Wednesday 1130am Hospice was here at 430pm, for mom to sign some papers, that they got it sent to The appeal people by 5pm the same day, that was mandated by the appeal place!!!